There are a number of things that you should never tell a man if you
would like to have a good dating relationship with him. Let us take a
look at them so that you can avoid them.
- 1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say this as a way of
making him say that he loves you too, but you should not try to push
him to say something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain in an
awkward position when he does not do it.
- 2. If he promised to call but didn't, don't confront him and ask why
he did not call. You will be basically accusing him of not caring for
you, and it is more likely that you will make him turn defensive.
- 3. When you go out on a date, do not press him to tell you when you
should expect to see him once more. If he is really interested, he will
get in touch. On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you should
not keep your life on hold for him.
- 4. In case he does not keep his promise to see you, you should not
ask him where he had been. The hidden question is really whether he was
out with another girl, which will just show your fear and insecurity.
- 5. In case he had gone out with another woman, you will simply put
both of you in an uncomfortable position when you ask him whether he
went to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.
- 6. Whether you have just started going out with a guy or you have
dated for some time, do not press him with the question as to where your
relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you will
simply know this from his actions.
- 7. If you have something you would like to discuss with him, bring
it up casually at an appropriate time. When you tell him that you would
like to have a talk, he will automatically become defensive as he does
not expect the conversation to be enjoyable. You just need to choose
your time well.
- 8. However much he has hurt you, going around stating how you have
him won't solve the issue. In fact, when you maintain your cool even
during a breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing temper
tantrums will only push him further away from you.
- 9. In case you suspect that he has been up to no good, telling him
that you don't trust him won't make him change. Instead, he will just
get more careful, and you won't be able to get the much needed evidence.
