Dear House Wife, We mistresses don’t intentionally go hunting for your husbands, we meet them like you meet people everyday, through friends, at the supermarket, at work functions hell even on the side of the road. We don’t always know from the get go the man is married because a lot of these brothers don’t wear rings or come with a stamp saying “taken”. Half the time …he’s alone, there’s no trace of you, even in his car! It takes a well trained eye to spot traces of another woman, e.g seatbelt perfume, weave strands, hair oil on the headrest, etc. My job in your relationship is to give him a break from reality, yes you and the kids are real but so are the bills and school fees and work stress. I’m where he de-stresses. I know my place trust me I do, I know to keep quiet when you call while we together. I know not to spend on his credit card but to ask for cash, all this is to protect you, yes you, from pain, humiliation and suffering, I get a tired